We are having a great summer! We just had a wonderful week at family camp with our church. Our son had such a great time we signed up for next year already... and God willing, we will be going as a bigger family :)
We finished up with our fingerprinting last week and are waiting for final CIS approval, which allows up to bring our newly adopted child into the USA. Once our approval is given we will put it in our dossier. Our dossier (the massive document containing our last 9 months of paperwork!) is already authenticated and just awaiting a few more final documents. Then it will be sent off to some federal agency (I forget where), the Rwanda Embassy in the US, then to Rwanda for their approval. Our "paper chase" is almost done... and "the wait" will begin.
One of my favorite adoption/parenting books is The Connected Child by Dr. Purvis and Dr. Sunshine (don't you just love that last name). If you haven't read it and plan to adopt or are a relative/close friend of someone adopting it is an almost mandatory read... especially if you are adopting an orphan from another county or a child through the foster care system. Dr. Puvis has now helped develop additional resources through Empowered to Connect! I am so excited about their new study guide: Created to Connect: A Christian's Guide to the Connected Child! You can download the free study guide from this link and view the videos on line. If you sign up for their emails you will get occasional videos/articles on related adoption stuff. They also are having an upcoming conference in Nashville, TN. I would love to be lucky enough to go!! Our church is also in the editing stages of producing an adoption small group study- I can't wait for it to be completed!
Now we are off to an family picnic with other families from church who have adopted or are in the process of adopting. It is so great to have a church family that supports adoption and is cultivating an adoption culture. It's so important to have a support system and knowledgeable resources available.
My husband and I have always thought once we started having kids we would have one between us. After that, if we decided to have more we would adopt a child needing a loving home. Fast forward... 10 years of marriage, one beautiful 8 year old boy, and God's prompting... In November of 2009 we decided it was time to adopt - from Rwanda. This is our "story" unfolding...
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
USCIS Biometric Appointment!
"Once someone touches your heart, the fingerprints will last forever."
We have our last set of fingerprints to take. This time it is for our 1600A (Application for Advance Processing or Orphan Petition) through US Citizenship and Immigration. Our appointment is on July 22nd! It seems a little far away, I thought it would be sooner but I'm so thankful we will be in town. We have several trips already planned that I'm glad it's in between these summer vacations and visits. We don't have to drive to far- just up the freeway to Santa Ana.After we receive our CIS 1600A approval, we send our dossier (which is pretty much completed just waiting until after the fingerprinting to do our final medical forms) off to be authenticated at the federal level in DC and then it goes to the Rwanda Embassy (in DC). Everything has already been authenticated at the state levels. After that it's off to Rwanda!!!
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
A Poem To My New Son
The other day I was reflecting on the parallel relationship between God's pursuit of me and all He did for me before I even knew or cared who He was and the relationship between me and my child to be in Rwanda. God did all these things for me, His child, before I knew Him or understood what it meant to know Him. Now I am doing these things for my child. So I wrote a poem to my child about it. I cry when I read it thinking about how God has been so good to me and what is yet to come. These pictures are from previous trips to Kenya and not directly related to our Rwandan adoption (although it's all been part of the journey).
Before You Knew Me
by Tristen McGhee
Before you knew me I was searching for you.
Before you knew me I was praying for you.
Before you knew me I already loved you.
Before you knew me, I knew you.
No ocean is too wide to separate us.
No obstacle is too large to stand between us.
No wait is to long to suspend us.
Before you loved me, I loved you.
I will calm you fears with my gentle love.
I will understand your sadness with my intentional love.
I will soothe your anger with my steadfast love.
Before you believed in me, I believed in you.
God adopted me before I adopted you.
God made me His child before I made you mine.
God came to me before I came to you.
Before you trusted me, I trusted God.
Because God did these things for me, I can do them for you.
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